“Hey, what’s up?”

“Running errands.”

“Oh, I need you to go to the grocery store.”

“OK, you need to give me a list.”

“No I don’t.  You’re just as capable of figuring out what groceries we need.  And you can open the refrigerator and the pantry to see what is out.”

“I’m not home.”

“Neither am I, so how can I see what you can’t either?”

“Because you just know.  You’re the one with special needs.”